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How to find yourself when you realise you’ve become truly lost

We all reach moments in life when we suddenly realise: I don’t know who I am anymore.

Maybe you’ve been living on autopilot, pleasing others, meeting expectations, keeping peace, until one day, you look in the mirror and barely recognise the person staring back.

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Toxic relationship recovery and rediscovering yourself

Toxic relationships can leave us feeling hollow, fragmented, and uncertain about who we really are. They erode confidence, diminish self-worth, and can lead to a frightening realisation: somewhere along the way, you have lost touch with yourself.

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Autumn foraging with mindful intention

As the days shorten and the air sharpens with a hint of wood smoke, autumn in the UK invites us into a season of ripening, release, and deep nourishment. The hedgerows darken with berries, the fungi rise from the damp earth, and the trees let fall their bounty of fruits and nuts.

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Reconnecting with your emotions after dissociation

 When people realise dissociation is an instinctive response, not a personal flaw, they can approach healing with compassion rather than shame. The same system that learned to disconnect can also learn to reconnect - with gentle, patient practice.

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The Buck Moon

The Buck Moon reflects a time of yang energy, vibrant, outward, and expansive (Yang energy represents masculine, active, and assertive qualities). This is the season of growth, metabolism, and outward expression. The body's systems are typically more active, and there's a natural inclination toward movement, detoxification, and sun-driven vitality. In July, this might mean:

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Why perfectionism can steal the joy of life

Perfectionism demands flawlessness at all costs. It tells you that a 97% on an exam is failure. It whispers in the background that nothing is ever good enough, not even you. It rejects growth in favour of unrealistic ideals. And it never lets you rest.

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How the mind affects our physical body

In this article, I’ll be exploring the hidden connection between emotions and physical health.

We often think of the body and mind as separate entities: the body as physical, the mind as emotional and mental. But what if the divide isn’t as clear as we once believed?

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Medicinal teas rooted in Celtic wisdom

In ancient Britain and Ireland, the Celts lived in deep connection with the natural world. Their healers—druids, wise women, and herbalists—crafted remedies from the land’s bounty, passing on a rich tradition of plant medicine. Today, many of these ancient herbs still grow in UK hedgerows and gardens, offering gentle yet effective support for health and wellbeing.

This blog explores a selection of medicinal teas inspired by Celtic herbal lore, balancing their traditional uses with modern contraindications to ensure safe sipping.

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Late spring mindful foraging

Late spring is the time when the Earth sings at full volume. Each plant offers not only a physical medicine but a story, a metaphor, a teaching for those who are willing to listen. As you walk the paths and hedgerows of the UK, basket in hand, remember that you are participating in an ancient dialogue between land and soul — one that the Celtic ancestors honoured in every blossom and bee.

Tread gently. Harvest wisely. Drink deeply of the wild medicine offered in love.

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The double-edged sword of perfectionism

At its heart, perfectionism demands an unattainable standard—one that is not only unrealistic but can also stunt true growth and contentment. While striving for excellence is a worthy pursuit, the compulsive need to achieve flawlessness in every endeavour traps individuals in an endless cycle of self-criticism and disappointment. What may start as motivation to do one’s best often mutates into an all-consuming force, leaving little room for self-acceptance or satisfaction in one’s achievements.

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The Pink Moon

Under the light of the Pink Moon, gather what nourishes. Release what no longer aligns. And trust that, like the land, you are built for blooming.

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Cultivating abundance in your mind, body & gut

Shifting from scarcity to abundance in your mindset, movement, and nutrition takes practice, but the rewards are transformative. By embracing abundance, you invite more joy, health, and resilience into your life. Start small, be consistent, and watch how your world expands when you choose abundance over limitation.

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Fibromyalgia, suppressed anger, and the path to recovery

Through my journey, I have come to understand the significant role that suppressed emotions—particularly anger—play in chronic illness. Anger, when unaddressed, can manifest physically, contributing to chronic pain, tension, and fatigue. Learning how to release anger healthily became a vital part of my recovery and overall well-being.

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The Blood Moon

The Blood Moon’s Call to Action

Lunar eclipses symbolise transformation, revealing what has been hidden and urging us to realign with our true path. The 2025 eclipse in Virgo calls for an evaluation of habits, organisation, and well-being. Whether through gardening, foraging, or personal introspection, this is a time to honour cycles of renewal and consciously align with the energies of the Earth and Moon.

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The Emotional Identity Technique: Aligning Identities and Relationships

Have you ever reacted to a situation in a way that felt inconsistent with your wisdom, experience, or age? This phenomenon, known as identity misalignment, is common in everyday interactions. Imagine a family disagreement that should be a rational discussion but instead escalates into blame, frustration, and emotional distress. This reaction often occurs because we are subconsciously tethered to a younger version of ourselves, responding with the emotional competence of our past selves rather than our present capabilities.

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How nuts and seeds benefit mental and gut health

Let’s explore why incorporating nuts and seeds into your diet can significantly boost both your mind and your digestive system and unless there is an underlying medical condition need not be excluded from your diet.

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